New Years Resolutions tend to make me feel like a failure when I don't stick to them...even those that were so ridiculous that they would have been impossible to maintain...so, I try not to make them.
But, I suppose I could try to learn to RELAX. There are times where I may have volunteered (or BEEN VOLUNTEERED) for something that I don't feel comfortable doing. I'll go, but I do it with a lot of trepidation. (I once spent an entire drive to a seminar practicing how I was going to introduce myself to the registrar...45 minutes of "Hi I'm Darci" "Hello, I'm Darci" "Hi there! I'm Darci"... and this was just to ATTEND the seminar...I wasn't even a speaker!) I must be a pretty good actor, because no one has called me on it...but I'd like to work on actually BEING more comfortable in those situations.